| The
senior middle school students English presentation competition
on the theme of “ My childhood” was held
by China Welfare Institute Children’s Epoch published
house recently. Here are some drafts of the students’
presentations.
Honesty
I feel very honored today
to share with you my viewpoints of honesty.
Honesty is a very precious and priceless quality one
should have. It’s a basic sense of moral
Honesty is very important to our society. It plays an
essential roll in creating a good social environment
and good relationship between people. Everyone hopes
to live in a world of the true, the good and the beautiful.
Nobody likes to live in fear for being cheated or defrauded.
Then what if honesty doesn’t exist any longer
in the world? Everybody, imagine if nobody in the world
is honest, everyone is telling lies and cheating others
all the time, then you’ll have to think of what
you’ve been told over and over again in order
to decide whether it’s true or not. How terrible
that’ll be.
We all need to be honest. Honesty can make communication
more sincere and direct. Honesty can bring people closer
together and can make friendship more charitable. Honesty
can make one’s spirit more pure. As a result,
an honest person can make more friends than those unhonest
ones. An honest person can gain others’ trust
easily while it’s hard for those unhonest ones.
I remember being told a story in title of “Here
comes a wolf”. It’s a household story and
I think everyone has heard of it. Let’s think
of a few questions about the story. Why was the girl
eaten by the wolf at last? Why didn’t people help
her anymore? The answer is clear enough. Because she
wasn’t honest! She told lies too often that people
didn’t believe a word she said! I think we should
learn something from the story, from the unhonest girl.
Being unhonest leads to a terrible and miserable result!
To be honest is to keep credit in yourself. And credit
is important to everyone. Nowadays we appeal for honesty,
because as the society developes, we find honesty gradually
disappearing out of the world. Many people, especially
those manufactors and ads makers, focus only on profit
instead of on credit. But what a terrible mistake they’ve
made! They don’t realize how important honesty
is for them.
Finally, I want to say: Be honest, and you’ll
find yourself happy and welcome, trusted and treated
sincerely. Be honest, and the world will become more
and more true, good and beautiful. Thank you!
My future Career
I want to be a translator
in the future because I think a translator is a bridge
between two persons who come from them know what the
other one wants to express, I believe it is a meaningful
thing.
Now the whole world is developing without stopping.
Almost everyone went or will go to another country for
travelling, studying or going on business, so communication
can’t be avoided. When you’re in another
country, you should know the cultures of that country,
but not everyone really knows that, so translators are
necessary.
I study in Gan Quan Foreign Language School, so many
foreigners in our school including teachers and students.
They can’t speak Chinese very well. Some of them
even can’t speak any Chinese for they come to
China for the first time. They really need a translator,
don’t they? That makes me feel that translators
are more and more important in society.
In Australia there’re not so many people as in
China, but there’re many different sections and
people use different languages. If there were no translators
in Australia, almost every section would have no relationship.
How horrible it was.
Another reason is that I want to found a benevolent
foundation when I grow up. It is good manners to help
abandoned children have new families and some other
things like that, I think. You know, it needs a lot
of money. Being a translator always has very high salary.
(That’s true, don’t laugh at me) I may spend
the money on the foundation, so that my career will
be a meaningful job. I dream that many poor kids may
wear new clothes with the help of my foundation. Oh,
such a nice thing.
You can obviously find that money is not the most important
thing to me and the high salary is not the aim for me
work as a translator. I just think communication among
different countries is an important part of human being’s
society, it can’t be denied, so my future career
is to be a translator. Anyway I don’t want to
change it and I will try my best to achieve my dream
from now on.
Are pets good for mankind?
Are pets good for mankind?
It’s really a troublesome problem, attention I
used the word “troublesome”. It sounds serious.
But it does exist two points of views. Of course, the
pets are good for mankind and pets do harm to mankind.
In my opinion, I love pets. On my salad days, I even
had a dream to keep a zoo, which will contain all kinds
of animals. Actually, I’m a traditional person,
that’s to say I would choose a kitty or a puppy
as my pet. I think, they’re not only lovely but
also considerate. Yes, pets also have their own thought.
If you treat them well, you’ll receive their respects
and become their friend. I’ve read a book written
by Japanese writer. Its name is “Farewell, Kurloo”.
At one time, it becomes the best seller in many bookstores.
You see, the writer is not famous, the story is not
complex, too. Do you know why it succeeded? Listen to
the reader’s reply, “I’ve never be
moved to tear by a book ever. It’s really a highly
praise for a book as well as the hero in this book—kurloo,
a blind-helper dog. Sorry, maybe it is not an exact
expression, but you know that, a dog that help the blinds
to do something necessary. That’s not pets’
only benefit, they can also be a companion of the lonely
people, especially the olds. In a word, I love pets
and I think they’re good for mankind.
But every coin has two sides. Many other people think
pets maybe do harmful to mankind. They rise a lot of
arguments that pets may infect terrible decease to us,
and they never have the concept of lavatory, you know,
they do that wherever they want. So many people consider
pets to be very dirty and impolite creatures. Even worse,
they criticize the pets-keepers. Their idea is that
pets are kinds of wildness. They should live outside
and not to be tame.
We must admit to saying that these words are not groundless.
But pets are not to blame at least. In our highly civilized
society, maybe some decease infected from pets cannot
be cured yet but we are sure to prevent them from infecting
by means of injection or some other measure. Furthermore,
we are very happy to see the authority has already taken
pets problems into account, and the first pets’
toilet in our country has been set up in Shenzhen.
Thirdly, pets are the noisemakers. When I passed by
a supermarket one day, the only sound that I could hear
was the incredibly noisy barking. I can’t imagine
that if the city were all surrounded by these pets,
how could human beings live? Except for dogs’
barking, birds’ sound can also be awful, though
some people think they are “singing”. Believe
it or not, when you step into a park in Shanghai in
the early morning, the noise make by hundreds of birds
can drive you crazy. So please be far away from those
pets because they’re also harmful to your ears.
Fourthly, pets make the city dirtier. You can always
find dog shit or cat piss in the neighborhood here,
and the nasty smell is always the most unacceptable
thing especially in summers. What’s more, the
remains are also a headache to the dustwomen. They can
always complain a lot to the pet-owners, but unfortunately,
the only thing that they can do is just complaining,
too. Without pets, we can have a better environment,
so why don’t we start to throw them way?
Pet can cause some problems in human-to-human communications.
Strange, isn’t it? Some Japanese scientists figure
out that more pets means less words because more and
more youngsters think that their dogs or cats are their
best friends and spend less and less time in communicating
with their parents and real friends. Many parents believe
that Internet can make their children more inactive,
but actually, pets can also do that! So the best way
to improve your communicational skill is to talk with
real people, not to play with your dogs or kitties.
Finally, raising pets means spending more money. The
municipal government of the city of Nanjing announced
recently that the needy could not raise pets any more
because they should spend the money received from the
government for themselves, not for their pets. The spokesman
said in a news conference that raising pets is luxurious.
The poor families can’t raise pets, just like
they can’t stay in a five-star hotel or treat
their friends with xo.” I agreed with his words
because I do know that raising pets needs much money.
Usually the cat or dog-food is quite expensive, about
1 yuan per meal, so the expense in one month will reach
nearly 100 yuan, which is quite a large amount of money
to local citizens. What’s more, buying a license
will cost several thousands yuan and health check also
needs money. No wonder some people say that dogs lead
a better life than their owners! So I think that sending
you pets away is also a good way to save money, don’t
you think so?
I’ve listed so many disadvantages of raising pets,
and I hope that you may agree with me indeed. There
is such a saying that “Love me, love my dog”.
Today, I want to make a similar one, which has an opposite
meaning, “love ourselves, hate the pets.”
The voices of the time
“Ladies and Gentlemen,
merry Christmas. I’m very honored to be here as
the special quest tonight at your New Year party. I
guess you must be very curious about who is speaking
here. Well, I suppose few of you know me for I am actually
invisible. But I’m always here; always exist everywhere
and anywhere. I know your name and your job, and even
your father’s name and job. Don't be frightened.
I’m not the evil spy, but the close friend of
your lives, the time.”
“I come to congratulate you on your success in
the past year and wish you all good luck in the future.
On my way here, I heard a little boy praying to me for
some extra gifts, ‘if only I could have a few
more days, I would have finished all the thing and even
did more this year.’ This is familiar to me. Actually,
I received this kind of pray nearly every minute. I
promise you here, if I could, I would spare you more,
but just ‘if’. I’m sorry to tell you
that this ‘if’ will never be possible, for
I was born to keep the justice in your life. My only
job is to walk continuously in my fixed pace, without
even a single spot, and thus I am able to keep the balance
of the world, instead of pushing it into a mass. Therefore,
I seem to be a harsh and cold man, without any emotion,
although I regarded myself as a kind and generous person.
In terms of my characteristic, I would like to say that
I’m indeed a kind person and easy-going. I would
like to make friends all the time and never would worry
that I would forget some of the people’s name
if I make too many friends. To tell you the truth, I’m
afraid of loneliness. However, I’m often alone,
for you always feel tired and are not willing to company
me all the way in life. So you’d rather follow
me leave me alone by stepping backward to have a good
rest. You are acknowledge that I cannot stop, but you
don’t care while enjoying your so-called ‘releasing
and happiness. See, now who is cold?’
“My friends, please allow me to call you in this
way. Please do not keep me alone. I can feel that all
of you here are ambitious with a very clear picture
of your future career, your future dream. After your
long ‘rest’, you realize that it’s
a must to catch up with me. Since I cannot stop. I cannot
slow down, of course. The only thing I can do is to
go on walking and pray for you simultaneously. Still,
I often see those grooming eyes behind me. I feel sad,
for I can understand the expressions there, kind of
desperate and pain. Tough eagerly wishing to help you,
I could not. This time, I play the role of the coldness.”
“So ladies and gentlemen, I’m sorry to have
disturbed your New Year party, but I hope you will remember
what I said. I can never slow down. Nor can you. Anyway,
go on with your carnival. We have to move on and we
cannot slow down and all the memories are just like
a film without sound. Grasp your tomorrow. Don’t
be afraid of me, and do not be frightened by the difficulties
in life. Be strong and courageous enough to treasure
me, to treasure your time. Do not complain that life
is not fair or I’m not fair. Remember that my
job is to keep and grantee the justice in the world.”
“Merry Christmas and Happy New Year. Have a good
time and enjoy your life and simultaneously treasure
your time, please. Again, wish all of you a good luck.
Bye, with the deep and best wish in my heart.”
Having a strong sense of Social
Morality
“Plastics will go
green next year. Do you know?” my friend said
to me excitedly. I frowned and shook my head. “No,
what is it?” “It means all supermarkets
will substitute plastic bags with a composable ones
in Shanghai next year.” But I didn’t feel
as excited as my friend. “But that will be really
unconvenient.” I responded. “It’s
true paper bags are more environmental friendly, but
they are easier to tear and rip. And besides that my
family uses plastic bags not only for carrying groceries,
we also use them in other ways.”
“But do you know how much pollution in caused
by plastic bags every year? Tons and tons of wasted
plastic bags are thrown into the see and you know how
terrible it is.” He looked at me like I’m
nuts. “I think it’s our responsibility to
reduce the use of the plastic bags. And I believe it’s
necessary for everyone of us to have a strong sense
of social morality.” He emphasized.
I got red in the face and felt ashamed of myself. Compared
with the pollution that our earth is enduring everyday,
I know it’s such a little thing for us to bear
these unconvenience. My friend is right. Everyone should
a strong sense of social morality since we are living
in the society and people’s sense of social morality
shows in the little aspects like what we would we do
with the plastic bags.
Our body is composed of tens of thousands of alls. When
a small amount of them are offended by the germs. We’ll
get sick and suffer from diseases. Our society is composed
of millions of individuals. When a group of them don’t
have a strong sense of social morality, the whole system
will be hurt and people’s mormal life will be
affected.
I nodded to my friend. “You are right. I will
try my best to avoid using plastic bags from now on.”
I know it’s such an easy thing for every one of
us to say “No, thank you. I’ve got my bag.”
In the supermarkets but that really counts to the point
of reduce pollution if everyone of us do so.
Apart from that, wherever you are, stick to the traffic
regulations however busy you are,, be friendly to the
out comers no matter what kind of stress you’re
in, those things are so small that hardly any of us
pay any attention to them. But these things show the
standard of a city. Shanghai is a metropolis with a
huge population, if everyone does have a temptation
to cut corers. I am sure it will be neater, nicer and
in a better order.
Every individual is a part of the society; every individual
shows the spirit of our city; every individual is responsible
for the future of the human race. Our sense of social
morality is the assurance of our pursuit of happiness,
it shows in every little aspect that we perform in our
social life.
Confucius has said, “Within the four seas all
men are brothers”. So my friend, we are like living
in a big family. Shouldn’t we build our home a
more comfortable place to live in? shouldn’t we
preserve the beauty of the earth from generation to
generation?
Does parental permissiveness affect
children’s development?
How to educate children has
long been an often-talked topic among parents. Different
people may hold different points, but one thing is for
sure, that these points of view have always been changing
as time changes.
Families nowadays are getting healthier and having fewer
children, so parents can easily afford to provide the
kids with better living conditions, which means abundant
food, clothes, etc. Moreover, children have more freedom
to do what they wish to do, for the parents are becoming
more open minded than before.
But there’s a problem. If parents just allow kids
to do whatever they want to do, as named parental permissiveness,
it will be very dangerous and harmful for the kids.
First, if the parents always permit their children to
do what they want to do, children will feel it natural
to behave without thinking whether it’s right
or wrong, and this ignorance may cause problems to other
people as well as themselves. For example, a child who
tries to steal an apple because he wants to paces it,
if not punished or taught by the parents, may gradually
begin to steal a bicycle, or even, money. No body wants
his children to become thieves, but the cause may just
be the parents themselves.
Second, children can’t live under the protection
of their parents all their. They’ll one day leave
home and begin to live with others and work socially,
which means they can no longer do everything they wish
to. But if the kids have already got used to the ways
they behave at home; they may be faced with great hardship
and obstacles in dealing with the others and accomplishing
things, and their wishes can not be that easily satisfied
as before. Consequently, some may always have interpersonal
problems, while some may feel too frustrated or depressed
to do anything after experiencing many difficulties.
To them, life seems to have suddenly become tough. This
is very, very harmful for their mental as well as physical
well-being, and may even affect their future lives.
In conclusion, parental permissiveness should be avoided
in family education, especially when the children are
very young. Nevertheless, it is equally harmful if the
parents are too strict, for children may lose their
creativity, the ability to think independently, as well
as the ability to make decisions at critical times of
their lives.
Accordingly, educating children is no easy jobs for
the parents. If they can really learn to love but not
to spoil their children, it is certain that their children
will have much better characters and personalities,
which will remain great treasure all their lives.
Are Pets Good For Mankind?
A piece of breaking news
came on Dec, 17th that SARS came back in Taiwan. More
and more people began to become worried and anxious
because it reminded us of the terrible outbreak of SARS
in this spring.
Why did I mention that piece of information here? Because
many experts believe that the origin of the SARS virus
is supposed to has a link with animals, and many kinds
of pets, which used to be called” men’s
best friends”, can carry the virus that are infections.
So more and more scientists warn the pet-lovers that
your lovely and lively “friends” can be
your trouble-maker in the future.
I am strongly against raising pets not only because
they can bring something dirty and nasty to us, but
also because they are always the “awful creatures”
in this modernized metropolis. Now let me give you some
of the reasons to support my point of view.
Firstly, as I’ve just said, pets can bring mankind
some kind of diseases. Not only SARS, but also some
other diseases, like flu, are believed that they’re
originally found in cats’ or dogs’ body.
Some experts ever point out that pets can “create”
some viruses, which means they can transform some old
weak viruses into new strong ones that cannot be easily
defeated. Health is always the most important thing
to ourselves, so leave your pet may give you a chance
to say goodbye to those deadly diseases.
Secondly, though pets can bring happiness to their owners,
they can also bring sadness to others. Many kinds of
pets, especially dogs, are the most dangerous and terrifying
animals in the neighborhood, so if the owners can’t
control and look after their “babies” well,
they may become the “spirit”. I was once
chased by a dog in a lane when I was a 7-year-old child.
I could hardly find any words to describe my feelings
because it was so frightening and I was so scared. At
last, the pet-owner came and caught his dog and I could
sigh with relief. From that time that I find that pets
are really a hidden danger to kids and senior citizens.
They may cause very serious social problems. Leave the
pets or you’ll face a “war”.
Thirdly, pets are the noise-maker. When I passed a pet
market one day, the only sound that I could hear was
the incredibly noisy barking. I can’t imagine
that if the city were all surrounded by these pets,
how could human beings live! Except the dogs’
barking, birds’ sound can also be awful, though
some people think they are ‘singing’. Believe
it or not when you step into a park in Shanghai in the
early morning, the noise make by hundreds of birds can
drive you crazy. So please be far away from those pets
because they’re also harmful to your ears.
Fourthly, pets make the city dirtier. You can always
find dog shit or cat piss in the neighborhood here,
and the nasty smell is always the most unacceptable
thing especially in summers. What’s more, the
remains are also a headache to the dust women. They
can always complain a lot to the pet-owners, but unfortunately,
the only thing that they can do is just complaining,
too. Without pets, we can have a better environment,
so why don’t we start to throw them way?
Pet can cause some problems in human-to-human communications.
Strange, isn’t it? Some Japanese scientists figure
out that more pets means less words because more and
more youngsters think that their dogs or cats are their
best friends and spend less and less time in communicating
with their parents and real friends. Many parents believe
that Internet can make their children more inactive,
but actually, pets can also do that! So the best way
to improve your communicational skill is to talk with
real people, not to play with your dogs or kitties.
Finally, raising pets means spending more money. The
municipal government of the city of Nanjing announced
recently that the needy could not raise pets any more
because they should spend the money received from the
government for themselves, not for their pets. The spokesman
said in a news conference that raising pets is luxurious.
The poor families can’t raise pets, just like
they can’t stay in a five-star hotel or treat
their friends with xo.” I agreed with his words
because I do know that raising pets needs much money.
Usually the cat or dog-food is quite expensive, about
1 yuan per meal, so the expense in one month will reach
nearly 100 yuan, which is quite a large amount of money
to local citizens. What’s more, buying a license
will cost several thousands yuan and health check also
needs money. No wonder some people say that dogs lead
a better life than their owners! So I think that sending
you pets away is also a good way to save money, don’t
you think so?
I’ve listed so many disadvantages of raising pets,
and I hope that you may agree with me indeed. There
is such a saying that “Love me, love my dog”.
Today, I want to make a similar one, which has an opposite
meaning, “love ourselves, hate the pets.”
Honesty
Honesty, a simple word consisting
of only seven plain letters, is yet a grand idea that
is always dominating the world of good and evil. Because
of this, the word “honesty” is rarely mentioned
in our casual daily life.
However, despite of its seriousness, “honesty
has become a hot topic nowadays. The reason is quite
obvious.
With the development of economy, an increasingly amount
of people are living a much better life. But some people
are so eager to make money that they push the thought
of “honesty” aside and try their best to
earn, seemingly, a better life.
Adding illegal sauces to the food, changing the contents
of mobile phones before selling them out… the
examples are, sadly, too numerous.
People often blame these people bitterly for “not
being honest to the society”, and many “Honesty
Banks” are springing up all the time. People are
trying to persuade the society to “save”
honesty and get some practical “profits”
in return.
However, from my paint of view, honesty has far too
great a value to be measured in money, marks and all
the childish matters human has created! So what is honesty?
It’s a mighty word serving as a scale measuring
the good and the evil. No one is perfect, and all human
can make mistakes. But the difference is whether you
choose to be honest with yourself or else. And that
very choice of honesty makes the world what it is today.
Secondly, honesty is also a means to show people’s
reliability in this society. It’s a true heart
rather than a warm action that fills this world with
so many firm links between people of all races. Honesty
is the power to make this world a safer place!
Most important of all, this magical word never fails
to promise you a truly happy life.
Many people consider honesty a sound behavior towards
other people. But I say it’s more of a matter
concerning ourselves.
Being honest is like taking responsibility of your own
life. Every dog has his day, but the happiness created
by dishonesty will never last long. If you really values
honesty, then put your heart at ease, for what you believe
in has promised you a life without regret!
Certainly, the problem of honesty will continue to be
a popular topic, and it probably won’t cool down
until the problem is finally solved.
So why don't we start now to treat this world with an
honest and true heart? It’s time to gain back
our trust and live a more peaceful life.
Finally, honesty will be the very magic that brings
the world back to a paradise of trust!
Respecting the old and loving the
young
There’s a Chinese old
saying goes, which simply means people have this social
responsibility to respect the old and love the young.
Chinese people always place a relatively greater emphasis
on their “Family Tie”. Many families still
live in a traditional way in which a household is made
up of three generations. Therefore, people maturely
grow a concept of caring for each other in the whole
family and thus respecting the old and loving the young
is a widely accepted deed and is being performed in
most parts of the society.
Of course, I don’t intend to say that the respect
ion and the love should only be restricted in our own
family on the contrary, we should face the whole society
and contribute our love to all the old as well as the
young, especially towards those homeless disabled old
people and the young children who live in the orphanage.
Let me share with you some of my personal experiences.
I used to do the social community work with my classmates
every week. We went to some nursing home to visit the
old there. The first time I went there, I felt deeply
touched when seeing the old people sitting in the wheel
chair, helpless to do anything but sit and wait. They
were silent, with no words or any expression, but I
could feel how lonely and helpless they are. I was extremely
sad when I saw that. I thought of myself that if I could
do anything to make them happier, I would definitely
do it. So, my classmates and me went there regularly
to sing them some songs, play games with them or even
just simply talk to them. From then on, not only did
we bring the joy and happiness to those old people,
but also I had grown a sense of fulfilling my own moral
sense and making other people’s life better.
Well, my point is that when people get old, they might
have a lower self-esteem and regard themselves useless
or helpless. So, what they really need is more attention
and more care from other people. In order not to make
them feel lonely, we should give them more respect and
provide them more care voluntarily.
Thus making the rest of their life more enjoyable and
worthwhile. But some people don’t seem to care
for it, some extreme ones even tend to abandon the old
so as to obtain the ownership of the housing and the
will of their parent. Isn’t that prosthetic? In
a word, the old are to be respected instead of being
abandoned.
And for the young children. We always like to compare
the young to the May flowers, which is equivalent to
that the young are the future and the hope as well.
There’s no doubt that people ought to love the
young and cultivate them properly. But in today’s
society, especially in China, due to the one child policy,
the love provided by the parents as well as the other
family members to their only child at home is likely
to be overwhelming in other words, love usually turns
out into spoil. And that absolutely is not healthy to
the child. How to love the young appropriately is still
a remaining current social problem to be further discussed.
Loving the young doesn’t mean spoiling them.
As I mentioned before, there are May young children
who don’t have a mormal family and are longing
for parental love and care. So loving the young is not
only limited to the young in your family but also you
have to see it in a macro way. To those orphans or homeless
children, we should give them more love and attention.
Child adoption in a way of some people showing their
love while donation is another. Well, I think the best
thing we can do is to go to the orphanage and to do
some volunteer work, I mean for us, the youth leagues.
In conclusion, respecting the old and loving the young
is a mandatory social responsibility for everyone of
us. To contribute our love to them will make their life
as well as ours much better and brighter!
Does parental permissiveness affect
children’s development?
This is an interesting topic.
Since our country has announced the one-child policy,
the parents have spent all their love on their only
child. Whatever they want, their parents will try their
best to meet their requirement. But is this good? Does
parental permissiveness affect children’s development?
In my opinion, it does affect the children’s development
and can be harmful to their growth. First of all, it’
s no good for the children managing themselves. Some
of the parents help their children do everything in
their daily life just in order to let their children
get down on their study. They cook breakfast for them.
They think what kind of clothes their children should
wear. They even consider what kind of job their children
should take in the future. In their minds, the more
they do for the children, the more successful their
children will be. However, their opinion is obviously
wrong. The parental permissiveness will cause a very
dangerous result. The child who lives in this kind of
family will lose independence and always depend on others.
Several realities have proved that too much parental
permissiveness will affect children’s development.
Comparing with the child whose family has a lot of members,
the child who is in a one-child family is not good at
solving the problems which he meets in his daily life
alone. They don’t know how to cook when they’re
suffering from hunger. They don’t have a clue
on what to wear when the winter is coming. They even
have no idea when they’re lost in the cities!
How can you say a man that cannot manage himself is
successful? How can you tell that the shortage of independence
won’t affect the children’s development?
I have to say that the main reason of it is parental
permissiveness.
Furthermore, a child who only knows to receive the love
from their parents will not be accepted by the modern
society. In fact, because of parental permissiveness,
they only know to accept love but no to give others
love. They are cold-hearted, and selfish. This can be
very dangerous to their development. Now we need people
who are not only cute but also warm-hearted. According
to the textbook of Politics, giving should be more than
accepting. But a child who only receives love from his
parents since his childhood spread love to the others
when he grows up? No, certainly not, and actually he’s
not a useful person. So can we conclude that parental
permissiveness is good for children’s development?
No.
I still remembered that when I was young, my mother
loved me a lot and always met my requirement. Once my
grandmother said, “ If you even wanted the moon,
your mother would get it for you as well.” This
showed the love that parents gave us. But as a mother
of fact, too much parental permissiveness can be harmful,
and it will surely affect the development of children.
Honesty
What is honesty? To be honest
is to be frank; to be honest is to do things according
to one’s moral standard, one’s ethic code,
regardless of outside circumstances. From ancient modern
times, honesty is always considered as one of the most
important virtues of a person. Honest people are always
respected by others, no matter in literature or daily
life. So why is honesty valued so much by the public?
Someone may think those honest people are rather stupid.
What on earth does honesty bring them? How much is honesty
worth? According to their theory, when you accidentally
see a diamond left by your colleague on his desk, why
shouldn’t you take it? When you can get much higher
scores in the exam by cheating, why shouldn’t
you perform it? For them, the most important thing to
be considered seems not to be what they should do; rather,
what they value most is the result they “achieved”,
no matter by which means and they are fair or not. But
I wonder now these people themselves will react when
catching others cheating or taking someone else belongings.
Will they keep calm to watch the process going on? I
do not think so. If what they value is the profit they
can get, they must jealous of what others get. Therefore,
we can imagine a world without honesty, people are fighting
against each other for the limited resources, somebody
steals, and somebody cheats---. We can never live in
this society, can we?
In fact, why do and should people value honesty? The
answer not only lies in the social security it has brought
us (as discussed before), but also lies in the fact
that it is not easy to keep honest all the time. From
the psychological view, people must fight against their
Old Adams, greed, craving for fame (no matter deserved
or not) and so on to keep themselves on track of normal
value standard. It is a test of endurance and integrity,
which is even harder when we face all kinds of temptation.
Thus honesty is a quality shared by only those nobles
minds and thus it is precious and we sing all our energies
for it.
If we take a closer look at our modern daily life, we
can easily deduce that a person without honesty can
hardly live in current society. Nowadays, more and more
people are using credit cards, and they only need to
type in the card number and the expiration date to use
it in any kind of purchase, even online purchase. This
process is so easy that even the input of password has
been omitted, which is totally incredible in a society
without honesty. Several days before, my school received
a copy of test paper from Oxford University. According
to the instruction, I should sit for the test on Sunday
at my own school and the test is administered by my
own teacher. To my surprise, when my teacher informed
me of this test, it was still well before the test date.
Doing the test at my own school first requires my honesty
and Oxford admissions offices believe that honesty is
the quality within their every applicant. This time,
I am glad I passed the moral test and finished the written
test following the instructions.
To sum up, honesty is the most valuable quality on should
have. Honest person will always find his way to success
and in fact, possessing honesty is to possess everything.
I will volunteer my future career
Every individual matters,
every individual has a role to play, every individual
can make a difference.
We live in a world where there are still conflicts going
on, where there are still families which can no afford
their children to school, where there are still our
friends living in pain and sorrow because of hunger,
disease or poverty.
I will volunteer to help those poor people, to help
make the world a better place, a big and harmony home
for all. That’s my dream for my future, that’s
what I wanna be??a red United Nations Volunteer.
Being a UN volunteer doesn’t mean high salaries,
neither high position nor public attention. But, in
my point of view, a volunteer is a man with love, care
and responsibility. All these showed the volunteerism,
the strength of share and hope. We could help to change
the world, only a bit by individual, but quite a lot
by all volunteers.
Dr. Jane Goodall, a famous naturalist, a woman who has
lived with the chimpanzees for 20 years, has set up
Jane Goodall Institute to promote the concept of caring
other people. Other animals and our blue planet to all
over the world. She is the example in my eyes as a true
volunteer. Inspired by her effort in raising the public
awareness of doing one’s share to improve the
environment for all living things. I joined the Roots
and shoots program founded by JGI Shanghai as the start
of my chasing for my future dream. Jane says, “
Roots seem very weak. But to reach the light, shoots
can be found everywhere and make a firm foundation.
They can break open walls. Imagine the walls are the
problems we face today hundreds and thousands of young
people over the world.” Following such a principle,
I set up a roots and shoots group in our school. I was
so proud when I received the membership form from JGI
Shanghai. I’m now a real volunteer—though
I’m still a high school student, but I can do
what I can, and step by step, towards the foal of a
real UN volunteer to realize my dream.
As the leader of the group, I organized a lot of activities
to do our share as members of the society. Now, Christmas
is coming, while sending greetings by paper card is
still a popular way in China, it really has a disastrous
impact on forest resources. So our group is on action
we make slogans, notice boards by recycled cardboard
and displayed them on the gate of our school. Meanwhile,
we persuaded people to send “Merry Christmas”
via other ways esp. Email, broadcasting or just by your
mouth. We gained support from many teachers and students,
finally we succeed! The mission of a roots and shoots
group also includes caring for other people suffering
from misfortune. Thus, we decided to bring Christmas
gifts to children who are suffering form lickmia (a
kind of blood cancer). We raised the money by recycling
of used newspapers, selling of personal stuff and changes
we get while paying in supermarkets. A total amount
of 1,000 RMB will be paid to buy presents as Holy Night’s
surprise for them.
Actually, all the things I mentioned above can be done
by every individual in the society. Of the conception
of volunteerism can spread to the every corner of the
grand land of China. Our society will surely be a better,
warmer place for all.
I believe so and that’s aim I’m trying to
turn to reality.
“I will volunteer”, “the slogan for
World Volunteer Day is not only a slogan but a kind
of way of life. Winston Churchill told us: “ We
make a living by what we get, we make a life by what
we give.” While giving, we are gaining. When I
was browsing on the official website of UN volunteers,
I was deeply moved by the stories they make in Africa,
Asia, Europe and other countries in the world. From
the bottom of my heart, I want to join. I want to be
part of the team, to help to build schools for Iraqi
children to care about children who are suffering from
AIDS to design a device to let blind people see, let
deaf people hear. When I graduate from university, I
will join the UN volunteer group and help to set up
its office in Shanghai. I will let every Shanghai citizen
to know the importance of volunteerism through my work
and my partner team. Volunteer is a vocation. No, it
doesn’t mean money or fame, it means contribution,
it means hard work, it means spreading love and care.
My dream as being a volunteer in the future is definitely
different form others’, I bet. In fact, I have
dreamed of being a millionaire like Bill Gates, being
a super football player like David Beckham, being a
scientist like Albert Einstein, being a pianist like
Yundi Lee, but eventually, I decided to be a volunteer
in the future. It’s really the goal of my whole
life. I have a dream, I dream all people around the
world are born equally and treated equally. I dream
the world will free of war and conflicts. I dream freedom
and happiness can be found everywhere. I dream everyone
could be a volunteer in some way, in some time.
“ I will volunteer”, I so swear, no matter
rich or poor, healthy or ill. I will be a volunteer
when volunteers are needed to help.
I cherish the title of being a volunteer. I value the
experience of giving my love to others. I will volunteer,
and you?
Having a strong sense of social
morality
Recently, the issue of having
a strong sense of social morality has been brought into
public attention. Many people agree that it is very
essential for all of us to have it, while I strongly
vote for it. In my point of view, having a strong sense
of social morality is not only important to individual
but also it plays a very inevitable role in today’s
society.
In the first place, a strong sense of social morality
gives rise to one’s own personality as well as
one’s perspective. Since we were kids, we were
taught many good behaviors and manners. Such as: don’t
speak loudly in the public places. No littering! No
smoking!” etc. They have shaped our good social
morality. Thus, we can tell the good behaviors form
the wrong behaviors. Imagine that, if everyone can obey
these rules and act according to the strong social morality
in our mind, the whole society will become clearer and
less polluted. People will surely live a happy life,
breathing the fresh air, seeing the beautiful sight
of the city and living in a comfortable environment.
Secondly, a strong sense of social morality also brings
about the enhance of personal quality. With the development
of people’s morality, whoever does something wrong
should blame by others. Consequently, all of us will
cultivate good habits. We will be more polite and friendly.
There’s no doubt that the proportion of the social
problems will reduce.
Furthermore, a strong sense of social morality influences
the whole society in many aspects. Bad social morality
results in bad reputation, pollution, disorders and
so on. These negative effects are imaginable. Take our
country for an example, a horrible disease—SARS
spread in this spring, people regard Anti-SARS as an
extremely serious battle. Without a strong social morality,
how could the citizens develop good habits, keep washing
hands and take care of others so that most of us could
avoided being suffering from it? Without a strong social
morality, how could many clothing factories and medical
works produce protective productions and medicines in
such a short time? Without a strong social morality,
how could many provinces and cities transfer their medicines
to some places which one short of them? Without a strong
social morality, how could the Xiao Tang Shan Hospital
in Beijing be built in only seven days and be opened
to patients? Obviously, the success of Anti-SARS depended
on the development of people’s social morality
throughout China.
As it known to all, China will be the host of the 2008
Olympic Games and Shanghai succeeded in the bidding
for the 2010 EXPO. In spite of the construction of gymnasiums,
museums and other facilities, what we expect is people’s
strong sense of social morality. With the open policy
and globalization, China’s position is rising
rapidly in the whole world and Shanghai has also been
brought into the world’s himeozit. More and more
foreigners will come to our motherland and see how good
are people’s social morality, more and more international
trades and exchanges will bring about. A strong sense
of social morality of the whole society might give a
deep impression on the foreigners. People’s good
quality and personality will be praised by other countries.
This will promotes the exchange and communication between
China and foreign countries.
We are looking forward that one day Shanghai will be
the center of economics, trade, finance and transportation
in China and china will focus the world’s attention.
Every one of us should have a strong sense of social
morality and try our best to enhance the social morality
of our city and motherland. In order to shape our personal
morality as well as make contributions to our society,
let us improve our social morality and form a satisfactory
social atmosphere together. The foreground will be bright
and considerable.
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